Franklin Barker

Written by Heritage interpreter Bailey Roberts

When us Heritage Interpreters aren’t giving tours or sitting at our desks doing research, we can be found keeping up the appearance of the mansion.

I love to work outside, there is something so calming about getting your hands dirty when planting flowers, or pulling weeds no matter how meticulous it gets. But one, sweltering afternoon (as this week has been) Austin Pittman, another heritage interpreter and I, were scheduled for a maintenance day. unfortunately for us, we were tasked with some yard work for that morning and afternoon.

The Mansion Garden is certainly a love/hate relationship. It’s absolutely gorgeous to look at, to sit in and walk through. But working in it can definitely have its challenges. For historians, it is not only important to preserve the artifacts and furniture that is inside the house, but the actual house itself as well. It is just as important. So Austin and I had to do the monumental task, most appropriately titled: Vine Control.

Since the spring, we have noticed a series of vines creeping up along the Garden wall, as well as the house walls via the garden. There were also maple trees starting to crop up around the air-conditioning unit in the side-yard. Yea, what seemed like an easy two person job was a stress case of trying to chop roots around the various electrical tubes and wires attaching the house to the unit. Needless to say, we cut the trees and left the roots for another day when the sun isn’t beating down on top of us. The vines were a whole other beast in itself. Taking them off the wall was an easy business, but untangling them from the other plants, and pulling them from the ground, well that was not an easy business, to say the least. There was one section of the garden, where it was literally just a pile of vines that we had previously thought were plants. As I started pulling and tearing, it was clear that it was just one big vine-tangled around itself. There is now a beautiful plot of garden land that can be filled with something that’s a little more beautiful to look at, and that’s not a vine.

Working at the mansion is sometimes jumping outside your comfort zone. History is something which is ever changing, a field that is always so full of surprises. It’s one big mystery that always needs solving. Pulling down vines, cutting down trees, weeding and planting is one of those aspects of local history that not many people realize happens. The garden is just as much history as the artifacts or the furniture, and it also needs care and preservation, even if it means getting your hands dirty.

But even gardening has its surprises. Growing underneath my office window was a small pine tree. How it started to grow there is beyond me, but alas it did not belong. After removing it, its roots were still intact and the tree was still in good health. The green thumb in me decided to keep the tree and appropriately name it Franklin Barker.

There is a tradition here whenever we find an animal in the garden, or when one shows up in the mansion (a story for another day) we always name them. Animals should have names too right? So why not a small pine tree? Franklin now sits in a large terracotta pot, with a name tag, on top of my desk. He keeps me company here at the mansion, and it’s nice to have some green inside my office, it’s important to have plants around you, even if my office window looks right out into the garden.

It truly is an experience, to say the least, working at the mansion, because I never know what is going to happen that day, or what to expect. History works that way sometimes. We write our own stories and work with the challenges and surprises that face us ahead. Whether it’s vine control, tree trimming, or tree planting, every day is a new adventure and I can’t wait to tackle what it has it store for me.

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Midsummer at the Mansion

Among the wild parties and speakeasies of the Roaring 20’s, many people gathered for quiet and easy going afternoon garden parties. These garden parties were typically small gatherings of family and friends that consisted of games, light food and of course, alcoholic beverages.

While many people may think these parties were only for the wealthy, which may have been true in the earliest part of the 1900s, by the 1920s leisure activities such as garden parties were past times enjoyed by everyone. For those who did not have large gardens at their homes, picnics in the public parks worked as a very good alternative especially considering that the games played were ones that were easy to transport. The three most popular games were bocce ball, badminton, and croquet. Though other games were played these were fun, easy and could be enjoyed by all ages.

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For food, small sandwiches consisting of chicken salad or cucumber were the go to ‘main dish’. Often these sandwiches were accompanied by fruits, vegetables, salads, or cheeses as well as light desserts. Along with the food was of course drinks. At private parties, alcohol would be served, often mixed drinks as they were becoming more popular as it grew increasingly difficult to get ahold of quality liquor. Of course, picnics in public parks would not have alcohol, but other light refreshments.

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One of the most interesting aspects of these garden parties were the clothes worn by the guests. During the 1920s there was a small fashion revolution going on, especially for women. Dresses were loose and colorful, a big change from fashion during the earlier years of the 1900s. During garden parties, it was often easy to tell the difference between the wealthy and middle class by the color of the women’s clothing. Wealthy women wore white, while women with less money wore pastels and light colored clothing, which was typically also their Sunday best. White clothing was very hard to fully clean at home if dirt or grass stains got on it and, aside from the wealthier women, most couldn’t afford to have the dresses cleaned by someone else or to buy a new dress if the other was too badly stained. Wearing darker colored dresses meant that any stains that could not be fully lifted off the dress were light enough to not be seen against the colored fabric.

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Though this era of garden parties has unfortunately passed, the Barker Mansion does its best to recreate times gone by with the Midsummer Garden Party. Held on June 30th from 7pm-9pm, the party offers finger foods and drinks reminiscent of the time. A light fare of finger sandwiches, fruits, cheese, and deserts compliment wine and beer as guests enjoy the evening in the beautiful Mansion gardens. 1920s era music will play in the garden to set the mood while guests explore all three floors of the Barker Mansion where they will also have the chance to view part of the basement that is now open to guests. This 21 and over event is $20.00 per guest. Find more information and reserve your spot online at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/midsummer-garden-party-at-the-barker-mansion-tickets-45777934033

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Hope to see everyone on Saturday!

Heritage Interpreter Jackie Perkins

Introducing the Gilded Age

Anthony “TJ” Kalin, Heritage Interpreter

Below is an early draft of the first two pages of the introduction to my book on Gilded Age Michigan City:

On clear days in the dunes, I always look for the Chicago skyline on the horizon of Lake Michigan. The urban jungle is a seemingly permanent fixture on the dunescape and an unavoidable sight. At least it has appeared so in my lifetime. It is not clear when the first Hoosier was able to look out and see the Midwest Metropolis’ outline. Some say that the John Hancock was the first building seen across the Lake, others have told me that they saw it earlier. A few Hoosiers saw it during the 1872 Great Chicago Fire.

The Home Insurance Building on the corner of Adams and LaSalle was the first skyscraper in Chicago and the world. It was built in 1885, making it the first step toward today’s skyline. Other skyscrapers rose, made from new steel beam skeletons. In coming years, electric lights made the city glow like the 1872 fire every night.

Even when the skyline was not there, Chicago was still a presence across the Lake. In Michigan City, the last Indiana city before the Michigan border, the Second City’s presence was felt since it became the Second City (its nickname when Chicago became second in population to New York since the 1890 census). The city only reached that status through an era of record growth and rapid sometimes violent, changes. In this period industry redefined the cityscape and immigrants transformed the city and nation’s culture. In those turbulent years, Michigan City’s residents became aware of Chicago, to different degrees.

In the days before Chicago’s prominent role in the Midwest, its presence would not have been felt as much in Michigan City. Whole lives could have been lived without visiting or conceiving of Chicago. Michigan City would have been a few generations’ entire world, but the possibility of such a small perspective changed. Early America was defined by the local, but in the period after the Civil War, American life quickly drifted away from that definition. New industry would attract immigrants and entrepreneurs alike. Interurban rail lines and excursion ships began to make travel between the two cities more of a formality, as opposed to the exodus down muddy roads that marked the previous century. Transportation was only one means of connection though, soon the forces of the era sewed the two cities together.

When the stockyards and factories, skyscrapers and slums, Prairie Avenue mansions and balloon houses grew to dominate the dialogue of the era, Michigan City became connected indelibly with Chicago. Boats took city residents across the Lake to visit the White City during the 1893 World’s fair and a few years later thousands of Chicagoans would be visiting Michigan City’s waterfront, midway, dunes, and touring the prison every Saturday. Telegraphs lines and the beginning of the associated press meant that both cities received the same news at the same pace. Knowledge, community, and culture merged across the lake.

Immigrant workers flowed to Michigan City, escaping the dirt, death, and tragedy in the Second City’s factories and slums. Workers left Pullman Town’s eternal rents to find homes in Michigan City. Immigrant neighborhood rose up to mimic those in Chicago which had mimicked those in the homeland. The Poles, Germans, Syrians, and Irish began their own churches, which grounded their identity in this community.

In turn, Michigan City’s upper class flowed back toward Chicago, vainly searching for culture and society. Bits of that culture returned to Michigan City, reflected in the City’s architecture, society events, clubs, and public buildings. Chicago’s culture stood as a standard for them from which to mold their world within this small duneland city, a standard that sparked growth, reform, vanity, and fear.

Some Michigan City folk married into the prominent families of Chicago and vice versa. The upper class looked nervously at the labor struggles and urban disorder in Chicago, fearing its import into their duneland metropolis. Nervousness was mirrored by optimism when some wealthy recognized that Michigan City was an alternative to the labor troubles in Chicago. However, when strikes materialized in Michigan City, both sides of the mirror shattered.

Michigan City in this era was as dynamic as the sands that sifted around it. In this time the city grew from a few thousand German immigrants and Northeastern merchants into a multi-ethnic industrial jungle. When Chicago’s skyscrapers rose higher than her church steeples, Michigan City’s smokestacks rose higher than her dunes. The city’s awareness of Chicago planted the skyline on the horizon long before it rose to visibility across the lake. The Gilded Age in Michigan City is the story of those generations in Michigan City who anticipated the skyline: the generations who could climb Indiana’s tallest sand dune and see the new electric lights in the city, the generations who worked seventy hour weeks at Haskell-Barker, the generations who built St. Stanislaus Church and others, the generations who walked amid the White City, the generations who rode on the South Shoreline for the first time, these are the generations who lived through Michigan City’s Gilded Age.

 

Louis Vuitton Trunk c.1905 on Display at Barker Mansion

Have you ever imagined what it was like to travel during the late 1800s and the early 1900s? It was of course nothing like today, where you book a ticket online, pack up a suitcase and set off. No, in those times it was a long process of packing and planning, and an even longer trip, usually by boat, rails, or horse. The Barker family traveled as often as they could during this time period, usually spending the majority of the summer months vacationing in Europe. Of course, the Barkers did not use modern suitcases, but instead used heavy steamer trunks that could be packed full of whatever the family felt was necessary on a long journey. Here at the Mansion, we have a large collection of original steamer trunks belonging to the family that are stored in a third floor room simply known as the Trunk Room. We recently pulled four of these trunks out to display in the Ballroom in a case, along with other traveling items that the Barkers used.20180504_132551Predominately displayed in the case is an open trunk that belonged to John H. Barker. The reason that this trunk was the only one chosen to be opened was because of the brand; It is a c.1905 Louis Vuitton trunk. There is another Vuitton trunk in the case that belonged to Mrs. John H. Barker, which has the original lining still in place. This lining seems to be a type of dyed red fur and it is very poor condition. Some of it is starting to tear away from the trunk while the rest is thin or ripped. To attempt to protect the inside of the trunk, we decided to keep the trunk closed in the case.

 

Many people believe that Louis Vuitton is a modern label, but the company has been producing trunks since 1858 when they debuted their first trunk: a flat top trunk with a gray canvas called a Trianon Canvas. Many types of trunks were created over the years by Vuitton and his son, Georges L. Vuitton, with each model more extravagant and elegant than the last. The first Vuitton item to bear the well-known Louis Vuitton monogram was a trunk canvas that Georges L. Vuitton designed in 1896 after his father’s death in 1892. The first Monogram Canvas trunk was sold in 1897. The monogram’s symbols and style, as well as the graphic flower and quatrefoil, show the design trend of the late Victorian Era. The LV symbol rounds out one of the most widely known canvas design from the Louis Vuitton brand. Even to this day it is the most used design of the brand.

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The Vuitton trunk that belonged to John H. Barker is known as an “Ideal” trunk. It was first introduced in Paris in 1905 and was advertised as a male changing-room trunk that could hold everything one needed for a week-long business trip. Both of the collection’s Vuitton trunks are leather and have the Barker’s initials on both ends. The Louis Vuitton Company made leather trunks from a variety of materials including, but not limited to: natural cowhide, calf, crocodile, alligator, elephant, walrus, lizard, snakes, and seal. The leather was chemically treated before it was added to the trunk by one of the various processes the Vuitton Company used: Grained Leather, Morocco Leather, Nomade Leather, Taiga Leather, and Suhali Leather.

Of course, people did not travel with empty trunks, so in addition to the trunks on display, the exhibit features some of the Barker’s items that they may have taken with them as they traveled.

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The above bag is inscribed with “Mrs. John H. Barker” and belonged to Katherine Fitzgerald who got it from the 1893 World’s Fair in Chicago only a few short months after her marriage to John H. Barker.

 

From planes, lightweight suitcases and travel size shampoo, our modern ways to travel may seem like a hassle to us but imagine how people from the Barker’s time would have felt to see the ease with which we can go from one place to another. However, I sometimes feel like there is something missing in our modern travels. Is it the ease with which we can just go when we feel like it, as compared to 100 years ago when travel would be months of planning and execution? Does this ease make traveling to a new and exciting place less exciting because we know we can simply go back if we so wish? Many people during times gone by would travel to an exotic location one time and likely never return. Did this make them appreciate it more than we do today? Or is it simply that charm of days past, the charm of steam boats and fancy rail cars, of steamer trunks and long summers abroad that make us dream of a time where travel of any kind to anywhere was a grand adventure that everyone hoped for. It may have been more difficult to travel then, but think of this the next time you are on vacation and taking picture after picture. Put down the camera or the smart phone and take a moment to imagine what you would have been seeing 100 years ago. Think about how you might have gotten to you current location, and take the time to appreciate both what we have now and the innovations that got us here.

 

Please come and enjoy our new ballroom exhibit. We hope to see you soon!

Jackie Perkins, Heritage Interpreter

Welcome Home

Emily Reth, Director

I left my job as one of the Barker Mansion’s Heritage Interpreters in 2016. It was a job that allowed me to plan events, give tours, and research the Mansion’s past. I discovered my love for public history with previous Director, Jessica Rosier. As she encouraged me to seek another degree to propel me to a better future.  My Master’s program took me away to Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio to study the interpretation, preservation, and conservation of history in their Public History program. For two years, I engaged with museums, archives, historical societies, and house museums throughout Ohio. Yet, there was always a pull to share my new knowledge and adventures with the staff here in Michigan City.

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The timing couldn’t have been more perfect- I was fresh out of my graduate program and Jessica was leaving to take a new position at Queen of All Saints. I was fortunate to already be in tune to the mission of the Barkers and the role that the Mansion plays in Michigan City. I have a mentor, staff, and board supporting me to make a smooth transition. The mansion will continue at full speed ahead, engaging with the public throughout our tours, special events, summer camps, and sleep overs.

 

Returning to the Barker Mansion has been a dream. Taking on the position of Director has been a blessing, and I could not be more thankful.

 

There isn’t a doubt- this is home.

 

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Conversations with the Past

By Anthony “TJ” Kalin, Heritage Interpreter

The past is not some static, unchanging bloc that ‘happened’. A large part of the work of the historian is to reconstruct the past, i.e. get the facts straight. But, the historian’s work is also to interpret the past, the connect it with broader themes and ideas. It is in this sense that the past ‘changes’. Interpretation comes in a number of forms. Historians can take the same sources and data and turn out very different interpretations of the same event.

I like to think that when a historian is changing a perception of a past event, they are conversing with the past, making it seem alive and flexible. This is not altering or rewriting history though, the facts of what happened never change, but how we think about history changes. The past tells us things; we just have to listen. In turn, when we interpret the past, we are both speaking to the past as well as those around us.

When I walk through historic buildings or neighborhoods, I work to place myself in conversation with the past sealed in those buildings. The buildings turn into symbols, each with myriad meanings waiting to be unlocked through conversation. The buildings and historic sites around us in Michigan City are not cemeteries, not a dead past. When we walk amid these old structures, we can connect ourselves to the past and see what it has to tell us. As a heritage interpreter, it is my job to formally bring the history contained in these sites in Michigan City to the present, but a number of other people and institutions in Michigan City perform the same role.

The Brewed in History Hike on May 19th brought historic sites back to life in the historian’s sense, but some other conversations with the past were going on. The tour went through the Elston Grove historic district before ending at Zorn Brew Works at 605 E. 9th St. Elston Grove housed a number of Michigan City’s businessmen, politicians, and professionals in the Gilded Age. A large number of historic homes stand throughout Elston Grove. I touched on the Haskell-Boyd house at 701 Spring St. Frederick Haskell brought the freight car industry to Michigan City in 1852, which John Barker Sr. bought into in 1855. Even though they had a home in Elston., Frederick Haskell ran the freight car company from the company’s office in Chicago beginning in the 1860s. The Haskells were prominent in Chicago society, Frederick’s wife Caroline helped to found the University of Chicago in 1894. The Haskells’ move to Chicago marked a broader trend in the late nineteenth century as the industrialist class consolidated in wealthy neighborhoods in large cities and took a more off-hands approach to running their factories.

The original public library at 312 E. 8th St. provided was an opportunity to discuss boosterism in the Gilded Age. Boosterism is a concept that is still around today; it is the promotion of a town or community that improves the quality of life in that town. Boosterism ranges from building parks, opening tourism bureaus, and other institutions. In the Gilded Age, boosterism was a way of solidifying the upper class as leaders of a community. The first public library was built in Elston Grove in 1897, and the founding members of the library all lived in Elston or Silk Stocking row, the wealthy neighborhood where the Barkers lived. Gilded Age boosterism was a cocktail of business sense (it drives up real estate prices), civic philanthropy, and class consolidation.

Buildings like the Haskell house and the library, along with many other buildings in Elston Grove let us see some of the big-picture changes and stories in Michigan City and United States history as we walked to Zorn. These buildings are symbols of the era they were built in, but the meaning still needed to be connected to those symbols.

The richest conversation with the past on the hike was at Zorn Brew Works. The team over at Zorn were picking up where history left off. Phillip Zorn, a German immigrant, first began brewing in Michigan City in 1871. His brewery served many of the saloons and bars in Michigan City that were the cornerstone of immigrant life. At one point there were over ninety saloons in Michigan City. Saloons were spaces where Polish, Hungarian, German, Irish, and other immigrants could keep their culture alive. Saloons also united workers in single industries or catered to men from specific neighborhoods. They served as important social spaces outside the home and were a critical part of nineteenth-century culture. Gilded Age elections were usually swung by saloon owners and many of the temperance movements of the nineteenth century were aimed at curbing saloon owners’ influence in local politics. I have found news articles from Michigan City at the turn of the century that talk about this in Michigan City.

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The original Zorn brewery supplied the beer that formed the foundation of this central aspect of Gilded Age life. Touring the brewery and hearing Sam talk about the Zorn family’s history in Michigan City mixed the present and past. Connecting the historical context of the brewery with the present context as well as their plans for the future created a vibrant conversation with history. While the context of Michigan City has of course changed since the Zorns ran the brewery, revitalizing the historic use of this site reopens that past. Renewing a historic site’s use makes the past feel much more real but is also makes historical change more apparent.

Recognizing historical changes in our everyday lives is hard. Human life just feels like normal life, but if we look at the world we grew up in, compared to the world we live in today the changes are remarkable. Take John Barker for example. He was born in 1844, in his lifetime John lived through the Civil War, industrialization, urbanization, massive population growth, and other changes that were unfathomable at the beginning of the century. American history in the Gilded Age completely flipped upside down. Americans’ experience of time, work, family, science, community, and faith changed dramatically as people moved into larger cities and new technologies made the world more connected. To me, the history nerd, it is remarkable, for one person to have lived through all of this. But to John Barker, it was just his life. He lived and felt as real as I do. In my lifetime, I have lived through historical changes just as monumental: the rise of the information age. My younger self could never have expected society to become centered around small the glowing squares in people’s hand (smartphones) or the rise of social media and other massive changes. When we run into historical symbols and sites like Zorn, that connect us with the past it reminds us of the changes that take place in our lifetimes. This should make us feel a bit of solidarity with historical figures, a solidarity that gives makes the past seem less static.

Our Pop-Up Tours this summer connect us with more of these symbols. Each tour turns historic sites that are not usually a museum into museums for one-night-only. The first tour was at Trinity Church and Barker Hall on June 2nd, the second is at St. Mary’s the Immaculate Conception Church on July 7th, and the final tour is at the Barker House (the other Barker Mansion in Michigan City) on August 4th.

Trinity Church is one of the oldest Christian congregations in Indiana. The first church was built in the 1830s. John Barker Sr. and Cordelia Collamer were married at that church in 1841. The second Trinity church was built in 1858, and a third church was built in the 1880s. Barker Hall was built connected to the church in 1886. Barker Hall was a school built in memory of John H. and Eugenia Barker’s three children that passed away. In 1901 John Barker built a Bishop’s mansion connected to the school. Part of the mansion is unoccupied today and was the ‘pop-up’ part of the tour. The school was later torn down, and Catherine Barker built a state-of-the-art silent film theatre there in 1928.  Matt Kubik, the building historian, took us all throughout the building noting its history and explaining the architectural styles throughout the complex.

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Matt shared a number of personal stories the building, some about going to after-prom parties in the Hall when he was high school and Sue Stephenson who was on tour shared some of her memories of after-prom at Barker Hall. Today the church is still in use, and the hall and part of the Bishop’s mansion are available for rentals. They also have a food pantry, Sunday school, music school, and many other excellent programs going on that keep the building alive. Matt’s passion for the building’s history, Sue’s anecdotes, and the work Matt, Sarah Williams, everyone at Trinity are doing today makes for a deep, dynamic conversation with the past. Trinity Church and Barker Hall is a symbol of the Barker Family in Michigan City as well as an essential cultural symbol in Michigan City. Matt’s tour connected us with the rich meaning behind these symbols.

The Brewed in History Hike and the Pop-up Tours were conversations that taught us the meaning of historic sites through the work of historians but also showed how the role historic sites play today stays in conversation with that past. This type of communication isn’t just reserved for history; we encounter it in our own lives too.

On the day of the Brewed in History Hike, I was also saying goodbye to a few people. First, it was my last day working with our director Jessica Rosier. She brought her husband Nick and their dog Rubie along on tour. I also had invited three of my good friends on the tour, for two of them it was their last weekend in the United States before they went home to Japan the next week.

While I am optimistic about the future under our new director Emily Reth, it strange adjusting to the change around the mansion since Jessica left. There are small things to get used to like calling it ‘Emily’s office’ instead of ‘Jessica’s office’ or getting used to opening my work calendar in Excel instead of Microsoft Word (for some reason every time I opened calendars made by Jessica it changed my Word keyboard setting to Portuguese). Jessica isn’t really absent though, her tenure at the Barker Mansion may be over but her presence is all around us in the programs she designed, the ongoing projects she began, the renovations and changes undertaken by her, throughout the mansion there are many symbols of Jessica that having meaning to my fellow staff members and I. Jessica’s time at the mansion exists in the same way that the history of Zorn, Trinity, St. Mary’s or Barker House exists in the present. The past leaves symbols around for us to process and understand their meaning. We can work forward while still recognizing the import and presence of our history.

My friends who came on the history hike are six thousand miles away now, but their presence hasn’t left me. I have first-hand experience of my friends, my memories of them feel so real compared to historical figures. There is a much great distance between the Gilded Age and the present than between my friends, and we can feel the same way about history as I do about my friends. The method of communicating with the past is just different. I can FaceTime my friends and while I wish I could FaceTime John H. Barker (what a great source for my book!) I have to talk more indirectly, looking at the sources and letters he left behind. Looking at these sources lets me interpret his life and bring that static past alive.

As I write this I am eating a bowl of somen, a cold Japanese summer noodle my friends introduced to me. Its kind of like angel hair pasta but it is much, much thinner and is served with ice cubes and a soup base made from soy sauce, rice vinegar, and ground fish. It quickly became my favorite food, and today it stands as just one of many symbols of my time with them. Through this bowl of somen, I can feel the laughter when I spilled a gigantic pot of it in my kitchen one night or when my friends made fun of me for ‘eating more somen than anyone does in Japan’ or their constant offers to ‘take me to the somen factory whenever I visit Japan’. Through their presence at the history hike, a little bit of my history mixes in with the rich history of the Gilded Age in Michigan City. The trick is to make the Gilded Age like that bowl of somen.

 

Tickets for the St. Mary’s and Barker House pop-up tours available at: https://www.eventbrite.com/o/barker-mansion-10817816326 

Further Reading:

Karamanski, Theodore. “History, Memory, and Historic Districts in Chicago” The Public Historian Vol.32, No.4 (Fall 2010) p. 33-41

Rosenzweig, Roy. Eight Hours for What We Will: Work and Leisure in an Industrial City 1870-1920. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1983.

When “yes” means goodbye

By Jessica Rosier, Director of the Barker Mansion

***This blog post reflects the view of the author, not Barker Mansion.***

I have a cartoon on my bulletin board. It reads: “The Secret of Time Management. It’s that magic 2-letter word: NO.” I clipped this illustration out a magazine a few years ago as a reminder to myself: don’t become so busy that you don’t have time for things you enjoy, and those which are most meaningful.

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There are many things in life that are worth a yes, though. Many of the best yeses are organic. They start from a sincere interest, desire, or curiosity. Perhaps it’s an invitation from a friend or respected colleague. In whatever case, a sincere yes shouldn’t make a person stressed out or pause for a second-guess. It should feel right.

A year-long string of yeses has taken me on a wonderful journey. It started with an honor. I was asked to be a voting delegate in the Diocese of Gary’s first-ever historic synod, which took place in June 2017. Together with hundreds of other men and women across the region, we met to prayerfully discern and direct the future of the diocese regarding key issues such as social teaching, marriage and family, evangelization and more. The Spirit was truly present that day, and I was inspired to become more involved in parish life. The thought of pursuing a job in ministry crossed my mind, but I pushed it aside as I had a wonderful and stable career at the Barker Mansion – one that I had worked many years to obtain.

Later that month, another yes emerged. I had expressed to Father Kevin Huber at Queen of All Saints in Michigan City that I wanted to be more involved, and he asked me to serve in a volunteer role at the parish. He wanted help in coordinating the post-Mass activities in the new Legacy Center. My role would be called the Weekend Experience Coordinator. This played naturally into my professional skill set, so it was an easy yes.

Near the end of summer, Father asked me to serve on the Pastoral Council. I had been curious to know about the inner-workings of the church, so this was another easy yes.

I found myself spending more and more time at Queen of All Saints, and the Legacy Center really started to feel like home. My husband really grew to enjoy spending time there too, and became involved in various ministries on his own. Seeing parishioners and new guests socializing in the gathering space after Mass, enjoying coffee and donuts, writing cards to those in nursing homes, viewing an inspirational film, or creating a craft was really fulfilling. All through the year, that thought of pursing a job in ministry kept creeping into my mind. Each time, I would push it aside telling myself that I could easily balance work at the mansion with volunteer duties.

Also during this time, I felt a pull to deepen my own knowledge of Scripture. Through conversations with friends in South Bend, I came to know about the University of Notre Dame’s STEP (Satellite Theological Education Program). I dipped my toe into this program by saying yes to one class in January 2018. One class led to another, and so on. I was able to attend a powerful conference at Notre Dame in March 2018, Cultures of Formation. It was during this time that I knew I couldn’t keep pushing that ministry job thought aside. It was time for a big yes.

Back at Queen of All Saints, Father Kevin got to me first. He pulled me aside and asked about the possibility of me coming to work there. This moment was truly cultivated by the Spirit. There is no other explanation for the yeses throughout the last year, how organically things grew, and how right it felt. Early this summer, I will start as the first-ever Campus Experience Coordinator at Queen of All Saints. I will schedule usage of the church buildings and rooms, complete marketing, and continue to plan the Weekend Experience activities. This yes, however, means goodbye to the mansion.

I certainly never imagined leaving the mansion after only three years of work. I’ve played a role in transforming the mansion into a viable tourist attraction with diverse programming. Some favorite accomplishments would be redoing the lower level to include usable exhibit space, building a viable volunteer program and hiring dynamic staff, working to create a website and establishing an online presence, revamping our Christmas interpretation to be historically accurate, offering scout sleepovers, and more. I am so grateful for the supportive board, my interaction with the other City departments and Mayor Meer, and my ties to the Barker family during this time. It’s hard to swallow giving up a job in which the community is so supportive, and where we have such a great staff and volunteers. This has really been the best job I’ve ever had in that sense. I never want to seem ungrateful for that.

It’s really a bit difficult to articulate why I want to work in ministry. Father recently asked me why I feel called to this job, and I felt a bit tongue tied. It just feels right. It’s a good yes. A yes that grew organically.

Saying yes to this new job allows me to use the event planning, facility management, and interpretation experience I’ve gained in parks and museums and use them for another cause. This yes that allows me to use my strengths to help bring others closer to Jesus.

This yes brings another change. Being a part-time position, I will be able to visit my home state much more frequently to help care for my grandmother and spend time with family.

This yes, though, means goodbye.

Thank you to everyone who’s supported me through my three years at the mansion, especially our amazing board members. Please be assured that I will be active in the search for a new Director, and will assist in the training-in period.

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